{"id":10,"date":"2008-01-01T18:06:15","date_gmt":"2009-08-05T01:06:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/maxscore.servehttp.com\/darienBlog\/?p=10"},"modified":"2014-11-28T09:23:14","modified_gmt":"2014-11-28T09:23:14","slug":"a-grip","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.darien19lee.com\/?p=10","title":{"rendered":"A Grip"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"IMG_8474m\"<\/a>*** A grip on Mid-Life:<\/span><\/p>\n

refresh \u2013 restart \u2013do what I can \u2013 do the best I can \u2013 no fear \u2013 I am not afraid — let the past be passed \u2013 protect myself \u2013 don\u2019t make myself vulnerable \u2013 do not overexpose myself \u2013 not overly modest \u2013 I am smart and able now \u2013 no dump head on \u2013 appreciation remembered \u2013 I have freedom \u2013 I have advantage \u2013 I have worry-free \u2013 move on with my projects \u2013 be daring in what I do \u2013 deal with reality changes \u2013 I have just as much rights as others who live on these two land \u2013 play ball psychology remembered \u2013 don\u2019t put myself in any weak situation which I don\u2019t need to be responsible and get blame for \u2013 there is no \u2018second class citizen\u2019 feeling on both places where I make home \u2013 the right and healthy belief of \u2018let go\u2019 \u2013 keep all good nature \u2013 be smart to take care of myself and loved ones \u2013 use play ball psychology to deal with things \u2013 be strong and healthy \u2013 I am myself as others are themselves, I can\u2019t change other adults as who they are \u2013 if I can\u2019t believe that I am making mistakes (when I am sure that I am right from heart), others won\u2019t believe that they are making mistakes either \u2013 give myself no excuses to not go ahead start and do whatever I\u2019d planned out already \u2013 it\u2019s time now to start and to do \u2013 stop thinking that I am not financially and experienced ready to start \u2013 I am now ready to start<\/p>\n

play ball psychology \u2013 want to beat others but not to be beaten; don\u2019t want to play with someone who is easily beaten yet also don\u2019t want to play with someone who can beat you; good days and bad days; over worry is pressure which is detrimental and will end with bad results and feelings; it\u2019s history when a bad day is over, let it be passed; over concern causes distraction which will end with bad results and bad feelings about not being lucky;<\/p>\n

*** The Completeness of living and working with a grip on Mid-Life crisis through the philosophy of the game of tennis<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

*** the philosophy of playing a game of tennis is all humanization in living and working ***<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

*** Passive Waiting and Status Quo make no gains but losses; Proactive Planning and Active Go For It make all the gains and winnings ***<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Life-long Knowledge (skill) and Life-long Strategic Planning (tactics) \u2013 with knowledge (skill) confidently apprehended, need the constant appropriate strategic planning (tactics) to complete the entire Life-long living game \u2013 adjusting and making adjustment (don\u2019t forget that to whom I am adjusting will be making the reacting adjustment) \u2013 action <\/span><\/span>\u00df<\/span>\u00e0<\/span> reaction – how to affect other\u2019s prospective action \u2013 how to influence other\u2019s prospective action \u2013 how to force other\u2019s prospective action \u2013 how to take control of other\u2019s prospective action – clear view on the game plan and look at the game territory from above \u2013 plan and make decision on my action \u2013 decide how I want to do it and GO TO<\/span> execute it \u2013 know and understand what type of players (partner and opponent) with whom I am playing \u2013 plan and make decision on how and where I will take the position \u2013 taking the position base on my decision beforehand help me execute as planned and give me better control \u2013 know and understand what\u2019s around me<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

The Complexity of Life yet the Simplicity Within<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

We all get to choose. Everyone has a choice. I have a choice.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

*** A grip on Mid-Life: refresh \u2013 restart \u2013do what I can \u2013 do the best I can \u2013 no fear \u2013 I am not afraid — let the past be passed \u2013 protect myself \u2013 don\u2019t make myself vulnerable \u2013 do not overexpose myself \u2013 not overly modest \u2013 I am smart and able … Continue reading →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.darien19lee.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.darien19lee.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.darien19lee.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.darien19lee.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.darien19lee.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blog.darien19lee.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1115,"href":"https:\/\/blog.darien19lee.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10\/revisions\/1115"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.darien19lee.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.darien19lee.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.darien19lee.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}